Why You Shouldn't Be Intimidated by Attractive Women

It's not a secret that one of the biggest obstacles that men have toward approaching very attractive women is the fact that they are intimidated by them.
When a man hears that these women are just like all other women and that there is no reason to be intimidated by them, he might believe that and yet that argument alone will not eliminate his fear of approaching and meeting those women.

However, understanding the actual reasons why no man should be intimidated by a very beautiful woman proves to be a very effective way of eliminating that same feeling.

So, here are three major reasons why you should not be afraid of talking to beautiful women:

1. The obvious but often overlooked truth is that attractive women are NOT that rare or uncommon. Go to any club or a bar and you will find dozens of women who are extremely attractive and would easily qualify as models or actresses. So... beautiful women are not scarce. What is scarce are beautiful women with equally beautiful personalities.

2. Remember -- what intimidates you is not a woman's beauty but her attitude. A woman's snooty ways of carrying herself, avoiding eye contact, and walking with the head high up is what makes her come across as unfriendly, unhappy, and otherwise unapproachable.

3. If you have met a few beautiful women, then you know that the likelihood that their personality matches their beauty is extremely low. In fact, many if not most of these women are uninteresting, shallow, high maintenance and otherwise unworthy of spending time with. And this is true of both sexes.

Why is this important? Well, because one of the reasons that guys are intimidated by beautiful women is because they think that these women are godly creatures and they have godly, outstanding characters. But this is usually not the case.

4. Many guys believe that these beautiful women are "out of their league." This belief has no foundation in real life. It doesn't take long to look around and notice how many beautiful women date and have relationships with guys who are physically and otherwise mediocre. So... the "out of my league" argument is just an excuse not to take action, and one that you should abandon.

So, whenever you see a beautiful woman that you want to approach, remember the above points, be realistic and assume that she is not going to be all that interesting until and unless she proves otherwise. And this will eliminate much of your fear of approaching her.

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How to Fake a Good Smile

I tend to be a reserved person, and I've noticed that many times when I approach somebody (not necessarily picking up women) I don't smile as much as I should.

When you have a serious expression on your face people tend to stay away. It tells the world you don't want to be bothered right now. Some people may even interpret it as arrogance.

We all know what an important non-verbal cue smiling is when dealing with other people. In fact it's vital for any type of social success.

However, if you're shy, nervous, or simply having a stressful, busy day, it may be difficult to crack a smile.

Of course, you could always fake it. I've tried this with varying degrees of success. It's better than nothing, but there is no substitute for the real thing.

So how do you crack a genuine smile when you really aren't feeling all that cheerful?

Simple: think of something hilarious when you make your approach.

I've tried this technique several times over the last few months. I always use it when I'm busy and stressed out over midterms or finals, and yes, IT WORKS.

Today, while dealing with a cute receptionist at my university, a Dave Chappelle joke came to mind, and I couldn't help but grin when I walked up to her desk. Flirting immediately ensued.

Had I not smiled, the dynamic of our exchange would have been completely different.

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31 Ways To Make A Girl Smile

1. Tell her she is beautiful

2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its Just for a second.

3. Hug her from behind

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5. Wrestle with her :)

6. Don?t go hang out with your ex when she?s not with you, you might not relize how badly it Hurts her.

7. If youre talking to another girl, when you?re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her?.let her know she?s yours and they aren?t.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say ?hi?

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10.Play with her hair.

11.Pick her up (she loves it)

12.Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn?t like it

13.Make her laugh

14.Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15.If she?s mad at you, kiss her.

16.If you care about her, then TELL HER

17.Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she?ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she?ll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she?ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with his cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.

18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you?re alone.

19.Look her in the eyes and smile.

20.Hang out with her on weekends

21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)

22.Kiss her just for the heck of it

23.If your listening to music, let her listen too.

24.Remember her birthday and get her something, even ifnits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. It means all the world to HER.

25.When she gives you a present on your birthday, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don?t (it?ll make her happy.)

26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don?t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don?t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

27.Give her wat she wants

28.Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

29.Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she?ll feel left out.

30.Hang out with her whenever you are free

31.If u care about her? SHOW her!

The Interview

Chicks will invariably "interview" you if you let them.

The thing you want to remember is that you should be the one doing the interviewing (qualifying).

Your regular old "nice guys" who answer the interviewer's questions invariably won't get a second date, or get laid.

Restaurant, whatever...

Her: Where do you work?

Him: The city sewer. Where do you work?

This is where the power comes back to you because you make it clear you are "evaluating her answer." You make it clear through your demeanor that you are the one doing the evaluating here.

You are the prize. She is in question. She needs to seek your approval, because you're in charge.

As she answers give her lots of "Uh huh", "I see", "Tell me more, this is interesting", "Fascinating".

The whole time this "conversation" is going on, the real conversing needs to be done with her eyes, through body language, through touch. Like two musical themes that are superimposed over one another, uh-huh, I see, tell me more... just keeps the beat.