30 Quick Tips in Meeting and Dating Women

Over the past few years, in actively and consciously trying to meet women, I have learned a few things. Some of these came as enlightening epiphanies, some came with groans and slaps to the forehead, but they all came with experience.

- It's supposed to be fun. You can't and won't win em all. Get something out of every interaction you have with a woman. Learn something. Entertain yourself with her.

- Be willing to change, but only for yourself.

- It really is a numbers game. Play the numbers, roll with the punches. It's a roller coaster, ups and downs, baby. "When you're up, it's never as good as it seems and when you're down it seems like you'll never get up again." You will.

- "Good things come to those that wait". Not this time. Good things come to those that act. The 3-second rule works on many levels.

- In general, it is bad form to apologize. For anything. You can admit you were wrong, you can offer to make things right, but don't apologize.

- There is no such thing as overconfidence. There is such a thing as taking yourself too seriously, however.

- Do not ask permission to do or say anything. Never ask a woman if you can kiss them, hug them, hold them, etc.

- Agreeable is boring.

- Jealousy is a "let's just be friends" best friend.

- Humor covers a multitude of sins. Laughing is an aphrodisiac. Learn to be funny. Listen to comedy albums. George Carlin, Eddie Murphy, Chris Rock.

- Never ask questions that are designed to find out what she thinks of you.

- Role reversal is great fun, and it works. Act like she is trying to get into your pants. Play hard to get. Fight fire with fire.

- Nobody likes a complainer. Unless he's really funny.

- A fireplace is a worthwhile investment.

- A drop of vanilla extract in your bottle of cologne. One spray on your throat, one on your chest, and a little behind your ears.

- The only thing that matters with a woman is now. What she thought of you 10 minutes ago is probably different from what she thinks of you now and what she might think of you 10 minutes from now. So don't worry about what she thinks of you.

- You must lead. Even if you don't know where you're going. Make it an adventure. Take her hand and lead.

- Touch her first, immediately, briefly. Let the kino progress naturally. Don't force it.

- Life isn't fair and dating is a part of life. Dating, dealing with women, isn't and isn't supposed to be fair. Get over it.

- There is no such thing as playing out of your league. Everyone is in the same league. There may be all-stars and scrubs, but even all-stars lose and even scrubs can become all-stars with practice.

- Women love dogs.

- Take periodic breaks from the game. Focus on your other interests. Get your life straightened out. Do something else, then come back.

- Get her to call you, do you favors, adjust her schedule for you, etc.

- The difference between being congruent and sending mixed signals:
Being congruent has to do with who you are. Sending mixed signals is about how you feel about her.

- If you plan to get serious with a woman, there are a few things you should take into account. First, she will turn into her mother. Second, she will turn into her mother.

- A woman will test you and keep on testing you. Don't get too comfortable. Stay on your toes.

- Good dancers are good in bed.

- Good kissers are good in bed.

- Don't let flirting drag on. Stop while it's still fun. Close, or leave and come back.

- Women like sex just as much as we do. They like to talk about it just as much as we do too, maybe even more. But not in the same way.

Kino Frequently Asked Questions

"What is kino?"

Kino is affectionate touching.

"Why is kino important?"

Kino is what makes the difference between being put in the "Friends Zone" or being in the "Sexual Zone". It drives girls wild! If done correctly kino can be an extremely effective tool in attraction. Some people even say kino is the MOST IMPORTANT element of attraction.

"Where am I allowed to touch them?"

Virtually anywhere! Cheek, back, leg, arm, hair, shoulders, fingers, neck, ears.... Just make sure you've kino'd a girl already, before you go for the more private parts.

"I'm afraid girls won't like it if I touch them. Can I get by without kino?"

Only if you want to put in a lot more effort when getting girls.

The great thing about kino is that it is so easy, so effortless - it's a shortcut that actually works. It bypasses all the other bull and makes you a more sexual guy. The thing with kino is that you just have to trust that it works; and trust you should. This stuff has been tried and tested, and it is highly effective.

I have to admit that I was once afraid to use kino. Then eventually I got sick of hesitating and I just went for it! I started out nervously but the more times you use kino, the easier it becomes, and the better you get at it.

GIRLS LOVE KINO! It's what distinguishes you from a "Nice Guy" with no balls, and makes you a confident sexual guy.

"Do you have any other important kino tips?"

- Don't wait for her to initiate kino. You should endeavor to make the first move! However, if she does initiate kino before you get a chance to, don't fret -- it's a very good sign that she's into you.

- If you are a little timid about kino, try what DarkDream calls "pre-kino". It's kino without touching. This means that you are "invading" her space without touching her. For example, if you are both laughing, lean close to her. If she has no problems with this (she does not react negatively), feel free to commence kino.

- When starting kino, make it very subtle, almost imperceptible. Light brushes against the hand or arm are perfect. You can do these light touches while walking, or in conversation to emphasize a point.

- If her responses are positive, get bolder. Try to keep it non-sexual until she initiates kino.

- Don't come on too hot and heavy with kino too early. This is a common newbie mistake.

- When you kino a girl, do it calmly, slowly, and smile.

- Use kino as frequently as you can. It helps you relax into the idea of it, that is, you won't feel WEIRD about it. Use it on anyone and everyone (female of course), your teacher, your relatives - anyone! Just get used to it so it becomes second nature.

Emo Song Lyrics

The Dance

A man was gathering firewood in the forest when he saw a beautiful girl in a glade. She was slender as willow, as fresh as morning dew, her hair was long and fine, and she wore a white tunic but she wore nothing on her feet. And she was dancing.

The man stood transfixed, watching the dance. She seemed at first not to see him, dancing now a little closer to him, now a little further away. Eventually she looked up at the man and their eyes met for a moment, and she seemed to come a step closer to him as she danced. She looked again, and the man thought to see a smile on her face and he stepped toward her. But she danced further away and he stopped.

For a long while he waited, but she did not look back and so he started to walk toward her, but again she danced away, and the quicker he walked, the further she seemed from him, until he was running, and as he ran, she seemed to disappear, and search as he might, he could not find her again.

Back in the village the man told his story, and every man went to the glade to see the girl, to watch her dance, and they always fell in love with her. Always she seemed to smile and invite them, and always they chased her, and always she disappeared.

One day the hunter came to the forest, he was on the trail of a deer. As he stalked the deer he suddenly saw the girl dancing. He stopped and watched her for a moment, but the deer was getting further away, so he moved on, and he did not look back.

Some time later the hunter was again in the forest, this time he was on the trail of a boar. Again the girl appeared, dancing closer this time. Again he stopped and as he looked she looked at him with the hint of a smile. But the boar was getting away, so he nodded curtly and walked on.

As the hunter - running - closed on the boar, the beautiful girl appeared in front of him, even closer than before. Their eyes met, but he ran past her, and in the corner of his eye he seemed to see her stop dancing for a moment as he left.

Time passed. The hunter came to the forest to gather wood to make his arrows. The dancer appeared, further away than before, and this time he stopped to watch her. She danced toward him, step by step drawing closer, now looking at him, now looking away, now smiling at him, now indifferent. He walked swiftly toward her, and she seemed to wait for a moment, but then she danced a few steps away. He stopped, then turned and walked away.

The hunter came back to the forest every week. And every week he watched her dance for a moment, and every week when she danced toward him, he stepped toward her, and he seemed to get ever closer, but she danced away, and he left. He chased the deer and the boar, but he did not chase the dancer.

One day the hunter came to the forest and when the dancer looked at him, because it was good to be a man alive in the forest on a beautiful day and to see a beautiful girl dancing, he smiled a broad joyous smile. The girl's eyes became wide as a doe; she froze and looked down shyly. When she looked up he was still there, the smile gentler now. He nodded to the girl and left.

Several days later the hunter came again into the forest, but this time he was not alone. A huntress was by his side. The dancer appeared, her eyes widened, bewildered and confused. Her dance took a more frantic speed. But the hunter was not looking; he was looking at the huntress. The dancer followed them all the way to the edge of the forest, and never once did the hunter look back.

The hunter came back to the forest alone the next week, and the dancer seemed sad and anxious in her movements, so he looked at her and smiled, and this time she smiled back. He started to turn toward home, but the dancers eyes became wide again so he turned to look at her. She was dancing very close to him now, a step forward, a step to the side, a step forward. The hunter smiled gently again and again turned to leave. And now it seemed that it was he that was dancing, and that she was following his dance.

They danced like this for what seemed a long while. And now they were almost touching. The hunter held out his hand toward the girl, and she took his hand, and they continued to dance, hand in hand.

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