If you are thinking about joining a dating site and looking for love or companionship keep in mind that this time of year is the worst time of year to be joining a dating site.
The months of November and December can be a very lonely and depressing time for those who are single and living alone. The big family holidays combined with the on set of winter and the slowing down of our summer time activities only add to our feelings of loneliness. No one really wants to be alone over the holidays, and therefore a dating site may seem like a perfect solution.
The problem is these sites may actually do you more harm than good. While there are many success stories in the online dating world, there are far more people who find online dating a fast track to disappointment. Even people who eventually found wonderful relationships via the Internet, had their share of failures as well.
If you are already feeling lonely over the upcoming holidays being rejected will only compound those feelings.
The best way to combat the loneliness of the holidays is too get involved and don’t be alone. There are all sorts of things you can do that will allow you to share the holiday in great company but will also let your see how very lucky you are.
Serving dinner at a homeless shelter, or offering to visit people in a nursing home on Thanksgiving and Christmas will not only allow you to share the holiday with other people, but give you a sense of doing something worthwhile. The people you will share your day with will really be happy to have you with them and you might even make a few new friends.
If community services is really not something that you enjoy, then why not invite other single people you know who will also be alone for the holidays to share a meal or an afternoon with you. Chances are they will jump at the chance for company and you all just might end up having the time of your lives.
Then if after the new year you still want to consider joining a dating site go right ahead. You’ll be able to do so without feeling quite so alone and this will allow you to make wiser choices on who you might want to meet and date.
Being successful at online dating is as much about timing as it is about anything else.
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