In other words, the flames of desire must be encouraged with learning and effort - or the desire will not manifest.
Many times when a person is aspiring to have good dating and relationship experiences, a good tip would be, not to quit. To succeed you must preservere. If you have a bad date, go out with someone else. If one person is not leading to enjoyable dating, say so & move one. the desire to find the right person can only manifest itself if you keep at it & don't give up. While at the same time being aware enough to know when it's time to move on, or even to take a break and continue later.
If you have a desire for dating experiences and do nothing...you don't ask anyone out or you are not willing to date people through an online dating service (with proper precautions) then it is your fault that you are alone.
Not because you don't deserve to be with anyone. If you have the desire for a mate you deserve one as well or the desire would not have existed in the first place. All you have to do to assure dating & relationship success is to move forward. Move forward with meeting more people and educate yourself on the opposite sex - on being more attractive and seductive, on how you can attract with humor and personality...all these abilities are skills that can be built with a little determination and self-confidence. If you don't feel confident, no problem. Pretend. By pretending and going for it with your socializing and skill development you will become comfortable with it and soon this more confident successful YOU will become a part of you for good.
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