Since I first started dating 8 years ago the longest I have been single was approximately one month, until now. I’ve decided to be more selective in who I choose to be with. I’ll pick them rather than they picking me. I’ve been single almost 2 months now and I’ve noticed there is a huge difference between the guys I want to date and the guys who want to date me.
The guys who I want to date are good looking, in college, successful, with a job and a car. Unfortunately they are the ones that put me off and if we do end up hanging out its just at their apartment, we don’t go anywhere and they don’t spend any money on me, dinner or anything. I might try to text or call them and hardly get a reply if I even get one at all. Yet they really hold my attention and I have a desire to be with them.
The guys who want to date me are slightly pudgy, okay-looking, have jobs, maybe have a car, maybe don’t but they call me when they say they will, they take me out to nice places, they take me to movies, dinner, give me compliments and really try to win my heart. Their only downsides are not great looking, felony charges, extreme nerdiness, facial hair that resembles pubes and just want to join the Army to escape reality. They want to be with me and they fill up my phone with texts and requests to hang out but I don’t even want to be bothered by them.
I don’t even really want a boyfriend right now. I haven’t been single in 8 years and maybe I’d like to try it but I wish there was just someone that I could want and would also want me.
Has anyone else found this problem when trying to date?
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