No More Mr. Nice Guy

Love is like the board game Monopoly. Certain rules must be followed, a little bit of luck is involved, and someone is always cheating. Most importantly, it is a game, and in order to win, you must play it and play it well.

Being a nice guy, I'm sure you feel a bit awkward playing games with the women you meet. It is not in your nature. You feel dishonest, disrespectful, and at times, down right mean. But these are the types of guys chicks dig, and if you plan on ever spending an evening at the hotel on Park Place, you had better start stealing money from the banker.

Sure every now and then you will get a lucky roll of the dice and land on free parking, but in order to be truly successful, one must develop a strategy. Listed below, you will find 10 behaviors nice guys can display in order to make themselves more appealing to the women they seek. Implement any or all of these behaviors into your everyday personality and watch the women flock to you like ants to a fallen Dorito. Be careful though; the results may be hazardous to your bedsprings.

1. The take away method.

Once a woman has gotten a taste of you, kindly excuse yourself. Always leave her wanting more of you. Here is a simple little tip. When you first meet her, pretend to forget her name. She will be dying to leave a lasting impression on you so you never forget her name again.

2. Flirt with other women and make sure she sees it.

Women want men who are wanted by other women. This is a fact. Women are very competitive and will see you as the ultimate prize if she is competing for your affection. Also, she will quickly realize the need to snatch you up before someone else does.

While using other women like this may seem cruel, never feel guilty. Trust me, you won't be giving it a second thought when the object of your desire is tearing off your shorts.

3. Confidence is key.

This is a no brainer. If you act like a loser, you will feel like a loser and in turn women will see you as a loser. You will never get laid this way. You will truly be a loser.

4. Be charming.

At social gatherings, and especially around her friends, become the center of attention. If she sees that other people like to be around you, she is likely to want to be around you also. She will want to see what all the fuss is about.

5. Shut the hell up.

People become more interesting the moment they close their mouths. And for women, half the fun is the challenge of figuring you out.

6. Avoid serious conversations at all costs.

Scott Weiland said it best. Conversations kill. Believe it or not, women are just as scared off by these conversations as men. Maybe even more so considering they don't expect men to be willing to talk about serious relationship stuff. Besides, they are always right anyway so why bother?

7. Intimidate her.

Always look her in the eye until she looks away first. This is the same technique experts use to train dogs to be obedient. This also turns women on. But hold back on showing her physical affection. The longer you make her wait, the more she will want it.

8. Do something wrong.

Anything that she will think is exciting, adventurous, and/or intriguing. Remember James Dean? Just imagine how much poon you would get if you were more like him.

9. Choose your friends over her.

This is one of my personal favorites. The whole time you are out with your friends, she will be out with her girlfriends telling them what a jerk you are. (Unless she's out cheating on you.) But when you finally do see her again, it will be like conjugal visit day at the county prison.

10. Never, ever I mean NEVER let her know how strongly you feel for her.

I don't care if you think God has sent her just for you and you want to marry her today, never let her know that. The minute she knows you have deep feelings for her, her challenge is over. She won. She got you and her fun is over.

I compare it to fishing. You sit all day with your bait in the water and when you finally catch a fish, what do you do? You throw it back in the water. Believe me, the minute she catches you hook, line, and sinker, it's back in the drink for you.

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How to Close the Sale 95% of the Time

Today I'm going to share with you the most successful and effective method I've found for "closing the sale" and getting that gorgeous girl to go out with you.

What I'm going to share with you is the "How To," not just the philosophy behind it. I kid you not, what I'm going to share with you is so POWERFUL, that it has only failed me twice in the last 6 years.

First though, here is the true story in how I discovered this secret...

All of my life, I have been involved in sales and marketing, and judging from results, I am good at what I do.

Back when I was 18 years old, I was at work doing what I normally do... working and trying to make a sale. Back then I was very confident, but unbelievably naive. (I actually went out on a date, and the girl was rubbing her legs and thighs all over mine while eating dinner, and I was wondering if she had an itch... unbelievable.)

Anyway, there was this 28-year-old, drop-dead gorgeous girl who normally worked in another city, and who was working for that day with us. All the guys were buzzing around her like flies around crap, and for that matter, so was I.

Evening was approaching, and I was getting hungry. I figured that she must be hungry also, since neither of us had had anything to eat for some while. So as I was talking with her, I told her, "I'm hungry, and I'm guessing so are you. Would you like to go to dinner, or would you like me to get us something to eat."

Since I was so naive, I really thought I was asking her to eat, not asking her on a date.

However, she took it to mean that I was asking her out (which I sure as hell wasn't going to argue with her about). Then she turned to me and said, "You know, I liked the way you asked me out. I don't think anyone has ever asked me that way before. Instead of asking whether or not I wanted to eat with you, you automatically assumed that I would and you gave me a choice of how I would like to do it."

Then I looked at her and said, "Hey, that's right!" Since she had been involved in sales longer than I have, she automatically noticed that I had utilized the number one rule that any sales or marketing person worth his weight in salt knows. And that is...

ASSUME THE SALE

One of the first things they teach you in sales (and which many people forget and extremely few apply to asking girls out) is that you should never ask a potential customer if he wants to buy the widget, but rather if he wants a blue widget or a red widget, a 4" widget or a 6" widget, etc.

Basically, as long as you don't ask him if he wants to buy a widget or not, he cannot decline to purchase -- you never gave him that option.

Anyway, I went out with that girl, and had a wonderful time. But the most important thing I got from that, was the lesson in the power of "Assuming the Sale."

So how do you apply that to your dating life?

Simple.

First you find a girl who is giving you the signals that she might be interested. You go to her and start talking about whatever you want. I'm not going to get into how to approach a girl here since it would be beyond the scope of this tip, plus there is plenty of advice at the site on that subject.

Now, the most important part of the whole process is the APPROACH, since that allows you to "put your foot in the door." However, other than the approach, and in some cases more important than the approach, is the CLOSE.

Here what the average non-DJ does: He finds the perfect girl, goes and talks to her (if he gets this far), and finally asks the girl if she wants to have dinner.

If you were to do this, which just about everyone does, then at that point you would have lost control of the situation. You have given her the option of dismissing you. Bad idea.

Instead, let's assume you've spoken with her. You've picked up on some positive vibes, and you think she might be interested. Don't ask her if she wants to have dinner. While being sincere, tell her, "I enjoyed our conversation. Why don't we continue it later on this week. Would you prefer to have lunch or dinner together?"

AND DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT THIS POINT.

This is important, as the first person to speak "loses," Even if it takes a full minute, just look straight at her confidently and sincerely, and preferably in her eyes until she answers. In 70% to 80% of the time, if you have read the signs right, she will choose one or the other.

Congratulations, you have a date.

Get her number and call her a couple of days later to make arrangements (and when you call her up on the phone, don't ask her, "So are we still on for lunch?" Instead say, "I look forward to our lunch. Would you like me to pick you up, or would you like to meet there." Or "Do you prefer Mexican or Chinese?" You get the hint.

If for some reason she starts making objections when you give her the option between lunch or dinner at the initial encounter, don't lose faith. Objections are the human way of saying "I'm interested, but not yet sold." That's okay, don't push it.

Just keep up with your conversation, showing her how cool of a guy you are, and when you feel the time is right ask her, "Let's go do something together in a few days. Do you enjoy bowling more or miniature golf? Bowling, then it's a date! Give me your phone number and I'll call you to finalize the plans."

As you may have noticed above, I didn't ask her for her phone number. I *told* her to give it to me. Respectfully yes, but I didn't ask. Why?

Simple, people are trained from school to follow directions. If you ask her for her phone number, then there is a chance she might still change her mind about bowling. But by politely telling her to give you her number, and by having the confidence to fully expect that she will give it to you, she will have no choice but to do just that.

As you can see, the principal of "Assuming the Sale" not only works when selling cars and stereos, but when asking girls out. In six year of using it, it has failed me only twice.

The biggest tip I can offer in using it though, is that you must have conviction in your eyes and in your tone of voice that she will accept one of your two choices. As the saying goes, "He who hesitates is lost."

Well, I hope you get as much benefit from this as I did. And if at first it doesn't work like expected... that's okay, just keep practicing... believe me, it's worth it.

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Can I Kiss You?

This little maneuver has become one of my favorite ways to really screw with a woman's head. Basically it goes like this:

You're out on a date and you can tell both of you had a good time and enjoyed each other's company. Now the evening (or afternoon or whatever) is drawing to a close and both of you are in that "goodbye kiss anticipation zone" that I'm sure everybody knows and dreads just as much as I do.

Finally you come to a stop in front of her door and, whether you end up walking her up from the driveway or just staying in the car, you ask her that Most Dreaded Question:

"Can I kiss you?"

To which she has two options for an answer. And if she actually did have a good time with you she will use the most favorable one. She'll smile coyly and say "Yes" softly, like only the ladies can.

Now you say this: "Alright then. I'll be sure to do that someday." Shake her hand or just smile and wink, but get on your way as soon as you can.

I guarantee that she'll be left standing there with her mouth hanging open wondering exactly what the hell just happened. And over the next few days she's going to really start itching for that kiss from you.

When she does see you again, the sheer anticipation of when, where, and how that kiss is going to happen will literally drive her nuts... because she knows you want to kiss her and that it is going to come sooner or later. But she can never know the answers to when, where, and how because you're never going to give her any clues. And you're going to act like nothing is up in the slightest. Pretend you forgot the incident even happened.

When you finally do decide to give her that smooch, just do it (but try to determine if she's in the mood for it; odds are she will be). UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES ARE YOU TO ASK AGAIN! You've already asked and she already said yes, remember? It'll be a damn good kiss, believe me.

This has always worked wonders for me.

I gave out that kiss to one girl after just running into her on the street and we ended up spending the rest of the day (and most of the next morning) together. With another one I was at an amusement park and the damn Ferris Wheel got jammed and we were stuck dangling in the air for fifteen minutes. I gave her a little peck and we basically ended up doing the grind up there until we started moving again.

And another girl actually tried wrestling that kiss out of me immediately after I pulled the "someday" line on her. Somehow I managed to get away from her. But when I kissed her on our second date at a red traffic light after leaving the restaurant, she told me to forget about the movie and come home with her.

There are more stories than that, but they all pretty much go the same.

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Are You Fun?

How do you choose your friends? Who do you choose to be around? Most likely these people are ones you perceive to be "fun".

Women are the same as us in this regard. They want a man that's fun to be around and they have a good time around.

I think about the time I was getting laid the most. I was a wild man in those days, always having a good time around women, partying it up every second I had, being the life of the party.

Consider the idiot who tears it up on the dance floor and can't dance worth a damn. This guy usually has women surrounding him. Why is this? Because he's fun! The guy knows how to have a good time and this is attractive to women.

Now, I realize you can cite many examples where the woman is with a total jerk who you wouldn't consider "fun" at all. But in some odd way she probably thinks he's really fun to be around.

I am reminded of my past relationships also, wherein if I got too serious with the girl, things would soon end. When the fun ends, the girl goes in my experience.

This tip by Eddie Money on the SoSuave Discussion Forum.

Seduction with a Dance

Have you ever wanted to hold lots of women in your arms, have them look into your eyes, and have them yearning for more?

Well, it's very simple -- learn to dance.

I'm not talking about loud disco clubs, but social dances like swing or any other where you can lead the women, spin her in the direction you desire, and have her looking deeply into your eyes.

I have only been dancing for a little more than a year now, and what a difference it has made in my social life. I was one of those "never dance dudes" cause it's just not cool. But let me tell you, a true Don Juan knows the act of seduction. And seduction through dance is just one avenue he has in his pocket.

Just the other night I went out with a date to this swing club. I could not believe how many single women were there at the club, along the wall just dying to be lead on to the dance floor. And being a true nice jerk, I left my date for a while and went over and danced with three lovely ladies (not all at once).

Man did I have lots of fun! A few minutes later one of the girls walked over to our table, where I and my date were having a couple of drinks between dances, and she asked (more like demanded) that I dance with her. So being a cool jerk I did.

Now you might be thinking -- what did that do?

It made my date think that I was in high demand. It planted a seed in my date's mind that, although she was with me, I could very easily select from many other women who would be more that happy to dance with me. It also demonstrated a dominance and confidence, and that I was there to have a very good time... with my date or with other women.

And man, did it ever change my date's behavior that night. She was willing to do anything to please me and, believe me, she did just what I wanted her to do.

(I was not the only guy out there at the club. There were other guys there just drinking and watching!)

So the bottom line here is... learn to dance and the doors will open up to you. It will build confidence, keep you in top shape, and, most of all, have women ask you out.

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A Female Friend

Here's a tip that I have personally field tested many times with great results. This is called the importance of having a female friend.

This girl should be good looking and the relationship you have with her will be strictly platonic. No sex, no kissing, no hanky panky. Even if she loses her boyfriend, is hopelessly dating jerks, or whatever, you will not cave in to her possible need to have sex with you since you are her good friend.

Once these feelings that she has passes, you will become her best friend. She will always talk highly of you to people and especially girls. Now, here is why this new chick friend will be of great benefit to you:

She can give advice on your dressing habits. She can help you shop and put together outfits that will make you attractive. You can bounce ideas off of her and she will tell you the truth.

You should be learning to cook by now and what better way than to cook for your chick friend! She will love it, you both will have a great time. Be sure and know what she likes to eat. Most girls are weight conscious, so cook something that she will not feel guilty about eating. Fish, vegetables, chicken, etc.

Thanks to my chick friend, when I cook for a girl now, I can rattle off how many calories are in this or that. More points scored for me. Also, most girls these days can't cook like their moms or grandmothers, so this is a mind blowing experience for them.

She is a great wingman for you and since you are her good friend, she will also do your bidding for you naturally.

I met a great girl not too long ago because my chick friend met her in the bathroom and she was complaining that all the guys at the club were dorks. My friend introduced me to the girl and talked me up to the point that I was making out with the girl minutes later! All of the opening game was already done for me by her.

Chick friends make good friends! But you only need one, not 10. She will always tell you why whatever girl you are dating or pursuing did whatever to make you wonder about them. Great advice from the inside of a woman's mind!

If she is good looking, and you two hit a club, women will notice you more.

I met a waitress once who was getting me and my chick friend some drinks. I went to the bar to catch her and change my drink order. The waitress asked if my girlfriend still wanted the same drink she had previously ordered. I said she is not my girlfriend, she is my best friend.

The girl's eyes lit up and she said "Wow, that's unusual." I replied that I like having a female friend because it's nice to hang out with a woman who I am not interested in and just be friends. This sent a message that I was the man and I make the choices. I then smiled and walked back to my seat.

The waitress, in an effort to see if I was telling the truth, said to my friend, "So you guys are just friends, huh?" My chick friend replied "Hell yeah!" Gary is an awesome friend to me!"

My chick friend and the waitress and I went back to my place later and had some drinks. I hugged my friend goodbye and made sure she got in her cab okay (another point for me in the waitress's eyes). That waitress and I had sex all night and she was really comfortable around me. Now the bartender at her job wants some action from me! Crazy!

Chick friends make you look good.

I was outside getting some fresh air while waiting for my friend to finish going to the bathroom and noticed these two girls being bitches to all the men outside as the guys approached them. As usual I ignored them.

They walked up to me and started talking. I kept it casual. Now, my friend is a solid 9 with a bangin' body and these girls were 8-9. They knew it and thought I knew it too, but I did not play into their silly game, nor did I put them on a pedestal. They kept trying to razz me, but no luck. One girl even said, "I bet you never had anything this good before!"

At that time my friend walked out, I put my arm around her and told the other girls who were surprised that I enjoyed meeting them and we walked away. The next week I slept with one of them and she said later that they thought I was better than the men they usually meet and kept asking about my chick friend who was not with me this particular time.

I explained the friendship thing and they were astonished and kept asking me if we ever go together. I replied that she was my friend and that I was not attracted to her in that way. Again, deer in the headlights look from both.

It's unconventional to have a platonic friend of the opposite sex, so it works great.

The trick is to be a GOOD friend to her in all the ways a friend can be. That means if she is on a dry spell with dating and she makes subconscious sexual advances, you will not act on them. YOU are the man and you make the choices. She will love you as a friend even more for not acting on her desires to lay you. (Believe me, she will at some point try to lay you.)

If you do lay her, kiss the friendship and all of these benefits goodbye. SO DON'T DO IT! She will help you score more chicks than you can imagine.

Last night me and my current love interest (whom my chick friend introduced me to) were out and about. All three of us hit the dance floor and since my chick friend knows I am not going to touch her or get the wrong idea, she was grinding on me as well as my love interest. All the men came up to me later and wanted to know my secret. I got many free drinks that night from guys wanting advice, and 2 girls' numbers who saw me dancing with them.

So you see, you project quality when you show up with two hot chicks. You own the joint. Every one there knew I owned it and we were the most popular.

Because of my chick friend, women warm up to me after I talk to them and I say something like "and this is my best friend Kelly." Of course the girl wants to know what's up, so we both tell her and then they go to the bathroom (typical of women). This is where my chick friend talks me up and answers all those typical female questions when it comes to guys. I ended up taking that girl home that night.

So this works great, but your chick friend has to be good looking and she has to be the kind of girl who wears nice clothes, etc.

So, here is what you can do for her and learn a thing or two:

Always help her with advice about guys. Help her screen her potential love interests. Observe men who come up to her and chat. Notice what they say, what they do and watch the body language. You will learn so much by watching them fail or score her digits, plus you might make another cool guy friend. (But be warned, he might be trying to be nice to you to get to her.)

Always offer her advice if you think she could use it. Protect her and act as if she is like a sister to you. After all, she should be! Be a REAL friend, no fakery! Woman know when we are faking, so don't do it. Plus, hanging out with a hottie will prepare you for meeting them. You will become comfortable around hot girls, so much that they will no longer make you uneasy or nervous.

Help her out as much as you can, be her safety net when you are out. Once a guy would not take no for an answer when he was hitting on her, so I told him to beat it. She was a little upset and wanted to go to the bathroom.

A group of girls at the next table saw the whole thing. I asked the least cute one at the table if she would escort my buddy to the bathroom. She agreed and the hot one came over and was astonished! She bought me drinks the rest of the night and came over the next day to give me some loving. She thought I was the most awesome guy she had ever met, especially when my chick friend told her how awesome I was....

So get a female friend, help her out, be a GOOD friend to her and she will open more doors for you than you could ever imagine.

Now, it's important to remember that you don't kiss your chick friend's butt too much. You don't wanna appear weak; you just want to treat her like one of your guy friends without all the fart jokes, etc. Treat her like a lady and don't ever look at her chest! (Well, don't get caught.)

I love my chick friend and she is one of my best friends. She gets me laid all the time and she is happy to do it. I help her with male advice all the time and I helped her meet an awesome guy like me not too long ago. She is forever thanking me for this. I look at it like it's my appreciation to her for helping me out so much!

One last thing, this new chick friend cannot be a girl you once tried to hit on and she landed you in her "let's just be friends" zone. She is a girl you seek out for nothing more than friendship. She will be taken aback by this and it will make you look incredible in her eyes.

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