Never talk about the "process."
If you've been studying at SoSuave.com, you've learned a lot of techniques to help you in attracting women. Never tell a woman "what" you're doing or "why" you're doing it. You want her to think that you're "naturally charismatic."
For example:
- Don't tell a woman that she must like you since she's looking into your eyes.
- Don't tell her that you never call the next day because it'll make you look desperate.
- Don't tell her that you're a confident man, and that women like confident men.
- Don't ask her why she keeps touching you. Or ask her why she was touching that other guy.
- Don't tell her that women loved to be listened to and have their thoughts paraphrased back to them.
- Don't tell her that physiological arousal can increase attraction between two people.
- etc.
When you talk about the "process" it loses its magic. The woman will become self-conscious, and you will come across as "scheming" rather than charming.
If you feel you must talk about the "process", then do it on the Don Juan Discussion Forum with others just like you.
But never with girls you're interested in.
