After you've mastered the number close, it's time to elevate your game to the next level and execute the kiss close. It's the best kino you can possibly apply when first meeting a woman, short of having sex.
Here's how it's done:
Before you can do a kiss close however, you must first do a number close. When getting her number make sure that she's the one who writes it. As she is writing it down, get into her personal space, if you aren't already in it, and act as if you're just getting close to watch her write down her number.
Position your head about a foot away from hers and direct your eyes towards the number she's writing down. When she hands you her number, you both should be face-to-face and you must look into her eyes immediately for a second and say, "Alright, well..." (then focus your eyes on her lips, take a small step forward, lean forward and slightly tilt your head as you begin to say...) "I'll see you later."
That way her attention is focused directly on what you're saying.
She's definitely going to want to know what you're saying to her when she sees you going in for a kiss. By the time you've finished telling her what you wanted to say, your lips will be almost touching hers.
I suggest going in with the intention of using your tongue in the kiss. She'll dictate what type of kiss she wants by either keeping her lips closed or opening them.
At first it might seem slightly intimidating to apply the kiss close but in time it will become second nature and you'll be asking yourself why you haven't been doing it all along. I recommend polishing up your number closing skills first because it's your foundation for the kiss close.
The kiss close works best when the conversation has lasted a minimum of five minutes, ten to fifteen minutes is the ideal situation but it also can be used after a long conversation where the pick-up was done in a relaxed atmosphere.
For those of you still stuck in the number close phase, all you have to say is, "Let me give you a call sometime" (no need to go into some big spiel) and she'll get the hint and start writing her number down.
Wait and see if she has a pen and some paper in her purse (they usually do). If she doesn't have anything, then it's alright to lend her a pen and a random business card. Don't just pull out a pen and business card from your wallet if you don't have to; you don't want her to think you're a player.
One of the keys to making the kiss close successful is saying a parting phrase while you're going in for the kiss (as in the above example). That way her attention is focused directly on what you're saying.
She's definitely going to want to know what you're saying to her when she sees you going in for a kiss. By the time you've finished telling her what you wanted to say, your lips will be almost touching hers.
I suggest going in with the intention of using your tongue in the kiss. She'll dictate what type of kiss she wants by either keeping her lips closed or opening them.
At first it might seem slightly intimidating to apply the kiss close but in time it will become second nature and you'll be asking yourself why you haven't been doing it all along. I recommend polishing up your number closing skills first because it's your foundation for the kiss close.
The kiss close works best when the conversation has lasted a minimum of five minutes, ten to fifteen minutes is the ideal situation but it also can be used after a long conversation where the pick-up was done in a relaxed atmosphere.
For those of you still stuck in the number close phase, all you have to say is, "Let me give you a call sometime" (no need to go into some big spiel) and she'll get the hint and start writing her number down.
Wait and see if she has a pen and some paper in her purse (they usually do). If she doesn't have anything, then it's alright to lend her a pen and a random business card. Don't just pull out a pen and business card from your wallet if you don't have to; you don't want her to think you're a player.
